Birthday in 2008

Although no Faber Hill, I have a big favourite fruit birthday cake.

Although no flowers, I have a bracelet.

Although no surprise, I have a far more than surprise's surprise.

I love my birthday this year. It's a wonderful, memorable, unforgettable birthday.

Thanks to my dar~~~. I love you. Wishing our relationship can be forever.

Wedding dinner of my ex manager vs life teacher

Later, after work, I am going to attend my ex manager vs life teacher's wedding dinner. I really feel glad for her. She has been through a lot to have the happiness now.

Wish to tell you that, you will always be the great manager and life teacher of mine in my heart. Thank you for teaching me all the teachings about life. May happiness be with you forever.

Forgiving Others

Recently, I have realised, how relieve it is to forgive a person.

Just like what Pastor Stephen Thong said, you angry, you hate, you want to take revenge - you can take all of these actions, but the outcome is, you are not happy. He asked us to remember - A hatred heart cant accomplish anything successfully.

Thus, let other people hate us and take revenge on us. We stay cool and choose to be happy. Why not? :)

Parents coming over

Friday is coming!

Finally, the day that I am very looking forward is coming. My parents are coming on this Friday. After being nearly two years here in Singapore, this is the very first time they want to come over for a visiting:)

In fact, I am really excited. I have planned how the three days should be spent on. Although three days are kinda short, I still hope that they can enjoy the trip.

Mr / Miss Right

許多人往往在抉擇伴侶時，容易東想西想，不知所措，
就是因為害怕一時做錯決定，看錯人，造成終生的遺憾。

諾貝爾文學獎得主蕭伯納說：「此時此刻在地球上，
約有兩萬個人適合當你的人生伴侶，就看你先遇到哪一個，
如果在第二個理想伴侶出現之前，你已經跟前一個人發展出
相知相惜、互相信賴的深層關係，那後者就會變成你的好朋友，
　
但是若你跟前一個人沒有培養出深層關係，感情就容易動搖、變心，
直到你與這些理想伴侶候選人的其中一位擁有穩固的深情，
才是幸福的開始，漂泊的結束。」

愛上一個人不需要靠努力，只需要靠「際遇」，
是上天的安排，但是「持續地愛一個人」 就要靠「努力」，在愛情的經營中，
順暢運轉的要素就是溝通、體諒、包容與自制(面臨誘惑有所自制)。

有許多人總是為「際遇」所迷惑與苦惱，意念不停、慾念不斷、爭逐不散，
而忘了培養經營感情的能力才是幸福的關鍵。
所以不要去追問到底誰才是我的Mr.Right / Miss Right，
　
而是要問說在眼前的伴侶關係中，我能努力到什麼程度、
成長到什麼程度，若沒有培養出經營幸福的能力，
就算真的 Mr / Miss Right出現在你身邊，
　
幸福依然會錯過的，而活在猶疑與遺憾當中，
這不就是許多愛情虛無症的遭遇與心態嗎？
若你此刻已有一位長久相伴的伴侶，
不要再隨便三心二意地猶疑了，
　
我們往往不易察覺感情中的一個陷阱，
就是「近親生慢侮」，也就是經濟學中的鐵律
「邊際效益遞減法則」，
　
跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木與忽視，
而新鮮的「際遇」總是那麼動人可愛。

在感情對待中，難免有摩擦與無心的傷害，
而且論得罪自己的次數累加起來最多的人，
當然是跟我們在一起最久、最親近的人；
　
而新歡呢，又還沒開始有得罪你的機會，
再加上他的刻意討好，所以新歡怎麼看怎麼可愛，
舊愛怎麼看怎麼討厭。

但別忘了，新歡身上總是有不確定的未知數，
舊愛身上就是有難得的熟悉感、確定感、信賴感。
千萬不要隨便在偶然的「際遇」中迷失了自己，錯放了幸福溫暖的手。
　
所以蕭伯納的話，是要提醒情人不要太鑽牛角尖於尋覓那唯一，
應該把精神用在學會經營幸福的能力上，
同時也提醒我們「溺水三千，只取一瓢飲」。

若有幸遇到了難得的伴侶，就不要再三心二意了，
因為我們永遠不知道一生何時會遇到兩萬個其中的幾個，
所以要知福惜福、活在當下。

Labour Day

Labour Day weekend just pass in such normal routine way. However, I have done a good deed. I have brought an ex classmate around Singapore yesterday.

This is the first time i have became a tour guide. I think I am not too bad:P Have to request comment from that friend. Hehe. Now waiting for coming Wesak Day holiday. Life is not only about working, but also about relaxing ourselves:)

I love you

David Tao, as much as your song 'Simple Love', I wish my admiring love for you is also a simple one. Hope your coming album gonna be very saleable, and coming movie is watched by millions and millions of people.

Thank you for your nice concert. Muaksss

The light effect.





When David Tao was having a break, there was a performance as above.






He performed with enthusiaticsm.

He sang the song 'Normal friends' with his friend. He is a good guitarist.




He duet with two pretty ladies, one of them is Tay Ke Wei, a Singaporean.



One of the audiences being called up to stage.
David Tao, thanks for being here.

David Tao Concert!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

After craving for soooo longggggg, endlesssssssss of yearsssssssss, I finally can go to David Tao concert!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

It's on tomorrow... I really look fwd for it :D Thank you darling for willing to accompany me to my dream concert. A big hug to you...

To Pa and Ma

"You Raise Me Up"
When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;
When troubles come and my heart burdened be;
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.
You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

There is no life - no life without its hunger;
Each restless heart beats so imperfectly;
But when you come and I am filled with wonder,
Sometimes, I think I glimpse eternity.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.
You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

By, Westlife


Thank you, Pa and Ma, for raising me up.

I wish to give you both the best of the world, as you both have given me the best in me.
Wish God's grace always be with you, always and forever...

Blogs

Last time, I cant understand why alot of people like blogging. WHY???

Till now, I finally know why, after I myself have a blog.

I enjoy blogging, cos:

1. It is a way to spend time preciously.

2. I can write my life experience here, and share with people all over the world.

3. Next time, when I read back what I have written here, I can get to know what has happened to me.

4. Writting happy times in my own blog, reminding me of how I should appreciate my life.

5. Thru blogging, I can see how other people lead on their lives. Wonderful and colourful lives, are what matter most to me:)

Conclusion, I love bloggingggggggggg. HOHOHO!!! Blogging rocks!!!

Thank you Honey~~~


With Love,
Ming